Measures of unconscious bias consistently display the same thing.
That abuse is not severe, but it is relentless, and much more easily escalates to actual hate that even the most recalcitrant misogyny.
Because the majority of the entire society hates men. Men are motivated to judge other men harshly because they are motivated to be more competitive and disrespectful, which involves othering your enemy, and the legacy of war is that men judge anonymous groups of other men the way their leadership tells them to, generally with distrust. Women are motivated to judge other women more leniently, and to be suspicious of men, and are quadrupling down on the idea men are just more often horrible human beings. Some feminism opportunistically feeds that, but they surely didn’t create it. Once you have those leanings, you start devaluing men as human beings.
Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun...
A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying.
One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever..
We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc
If u want pics of her text me.
This is not just about women, much less just about feminists. This is “the downside of patriarchy” in feminist terms and “the legacy of being a protector” in conservative terms. Men have a longstanding gender role, and being the first targets for abuse is a part of that role. Abuse cultivates hatred. Women will insist otherwise, but they can only do so by ignoring history. The penalty for men abusing women has always been more severe than their punishment for abusing one another or for women perpetrating any kind of abuse, at least on average. Whatever mythology feminists may advance for things like the acceptance of domestic violence, those are just lies, or they exist individually, but not as a trend.
Look at our vocabulary of abuse. I can’t reasonably call a woman publicly by the name for her genitals. If I used the actual word here, I would probably be reported. But I can call someone a dick, a prick, etc. fairly lightly. The strongest terms of abuse have male gender added onto them just for good measure: someone who has penetrative sex with your mother is clearly male, we aren’t all making some obtuse reference to pegging; when we call someone a donkey, it is a male donkey by preference; we refer more lightly to the sons of dogs than to the dogs themselves; when we reference masturbation it is wanker or jerk(off), and that is pointedly male masturbation…. Even very mild insults are pointlessly male-oriented — someone who sucks, sucks something that women are thanked, not denigrated for sucking, so this is clearly about gay men… It is endless.
Don’t blame feminists for not analyzing the downside of the male role, or for not having properly addressed it within themselves. They naturally have their own stakes in mind, not yours. But ignore them when they try to stop you from doing the same. Because this goes back centuries, millennia, before the first extensive patriarchies existed, to when we decided it was the male role to handle wars. And insisting upon ignoring it is getting worse as the world gets more polarized, less respectful, more arbitrary and less honest.
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